by : Dorothy Law Nolte

If children live with criticism (Jika anak dibesarkan dengan celaan)
They learn to condemn (mereka akan belajar untuk memaki)

If children live with hostility (Jika anak dibesarkan dengan permusuhan)
They learn to fight. (mereka akan belajar menentang)

If children live with ridicule, (Jika anak dibesarkan dengan cemoohan)
They learn to be shy. (mereka akan belajar untuk menjadi rendah diri)

If children live with shame, (Jika anak dibesarkan dengan malu)
They learn to feel guilty. (mereka akan belajar merasa bersalah)

If children live with encouragement, (Jika anak dibesarkan dengan dorongan)
They learn confidence. (mereka akan belajar percaya diri)

If children live with tolerance, (Jika anak dibesarkan dengan toleransi)
They learn to be patient. (mereka akan belajar bersabar)

If children live with praise, (Jika anak dibesarkan dengan pujian)
They learn to appreciate. (mereka akan belajar mengapresiasi)

If children live with acceptance, (Jika anak dibesarkan dengan penerimaan apa adanya)
They learn to love. (mereka akan belajar mencintai)

If children live with approval, (Jika anak dibesarkan dengan dukungan)
They learn to like themselves. (mereka akan belajar nyaman dengan diri sendiri)

If children live with honesty, (Jika anak dibesarkan dengan kejujuran)
They learn truthfulness. (mereka akan belajar kebenaran)

If children live with security, (Jika anak dibesarkan dengan rasa aman)
They learn to have faith in themselves and others. (mereka akan belajar mempercayai diri sendiri dan orang lain)

If children live with friendliness, (Jika anak dibesarkan dengan keramahan)
They learn the world is a nice place in which to live. (mereka akan belajar bahwa dunia adalah tempat yang nyaman untuk tinggal)

(^_^)

i have a wish
i have a pray
i wish for a cheer
i pray for a joy
i wish for a smile
i pray for a happiness
i wish for an activity
i pray for a health
i wish for a support
i pray for a strength
i wish for a wise
i pray for a knowledge
i wish for a hope
i pray for a dream
i wish for a ...
i pray for a ...

may Allah guide us to the right path, not to decoy us
may Allah warn us, not punish us
may Allah shower us His blessing, not His wrath
may Allah fulfill our prayer, for the same prayer we have

power is ...

idza roaitum munkaron
fal yughoyyir biyadihi
faida lam yastati' fa bi qolbihi
faida lam yastati' fa bi lisanihi
ketika qta bisa meraih kekuasaan kenapa kita tidak menggunakannya untuk kebaikan???
menerimanya lebih baik daripada memberikannya kepada kemungkaran

my students...

indeed...i have a mission when i come back to my school
now i'll give my evaluation...
almost 1.5 years i've been in doing this
most of my mission aren't accomplished
so, why still i doing this???
in the other side, i have sacrifice my education for my ego
isn't now the right time to leave it???
nope, not yet...
i still have dream... i put my dream on them
so, i think that's the reason...
but well...
i have to make a decision
hard decision
hard planning
to face the next world (am i ready?)
thanks for people who always support me...

prinsip

pada prinsipnya
seorang yang tahu kebenaran akan melakukan yang benar itu
dan tidak menolerir kesalahan
karena dia tahu mana yang salah
maka sebisa mungkin menghindari itu
mengusahakan yang benar dulu
bagaimanapun caranya
dan kalau terpaksa melakukan yang salah
sudah sadar dengan konsekwensinya
wallahu a'lam

ospek

dari kamis kemaren aq ngospek maru FK UMS
jadi korlap...jane sih pj acara
alhamdulillah lancar
tapi ya gitu deh
dari awal lagsnung teriak SATU... bikin anak2 pada lari
hari kedua...banyak korlap yg lebih serem
so aq konsen gmn acara bisa jalan lancar
hari ketiga
ampe malem
masuk kamar mayat
hiiii...
banyak kendala:-(
alhamdulillah lancar
capek...
tapi FUN!!!

halo

hallloooowwww...
lama ga ngisi
afwaaan
baru pulang ni dari karimunjawa
ikutan acara JamNas PTBMMKI XII
asyik banget
cerita selengkapnya nati ya
yang jelas jangan pangling kalo liat aq
cuz q tambah gosong
hehehe
SMANGAT!!!

afalaa tatafakkaruun...

afalaa tatafakkaruun...
sebuah potongan ayat yang bikin aq ga bisa tidur...
...
...
...

khutbah ta'aruf

SIBOOOEEEKKK...
WIRA WIRI KESANA KESINI
tho'am dunx
sambil kerja bikin blog dulu ah..
dah ya...ntar dimarahin pak bos
SEMANGAT!!!

test

coba buka ni:
http://www.infoplease.com/quizzes/psychcolors/1.html
http://www.factmonster.com/ipka/A0769383.html
http://psychology.about.com/od/sensationandperception/a/colorpsych.htm

uji coba

UAS

I'm in the middle of exam week
STRESSS
Anatomi...
Biokim...
2 of 3 killers lesson
oh no!!! i still have physiology left
well
CHAYO!!!

talk show

today
talk show with the minister of health RI DR.Dr.Siti Fadilah Supari,Sp.JP(K) n dr.Jose Rizal(president of MER-C)
it discussed about the minister's book "It's Time for the World to Change"
it was good, n she was cool n brave
i bought her book only 3orb(gramed75rb!!!) n get it signed too
today i rode my new bike! (^_^)

fiuhhh....

huwaaaaahhhh.....
akhirnyaaaaa......
rabu18=sibuk bin pusing
kamis19=pusing, ga bisa belajar
jum'at20=silaturahmi unasassco(pagi), RESPONSI(sore)
sabtu21=SEMINAR
ahad22=tes AFS di Smg, Pilgub (kartu babe kebawa lagi)
senin23=rapat pegawai
selasa24=kerja bakti
rabu25=bantu ngoreksi tes anak2
fiuhhh.....
i need REST!!!
ayo sapa kek gitu mbok ya ngajak aq jalan2 refreshing
eeehhhhh....
senin30=UAS
HWAAAAAA.........!!!!!!!!!!

RSJ!!!

i just got back from visiting RSJ with my friend
it's not like hospital, but like prison!!!
fiuhhh...i just felt a little bit nervous, scary maybe with their acts and attitude
couldn't imagine if i take that as my specialization
may be i will go crazy too...hahaha...
i also just got back from watching Naga Bonar I
it's funny!!!
and i had Dinner with mb Ilik and febri (we're close like family reunion)
they gave me a lot of advice, zaps me back to the reality
TODAY is a PERFECT day!!!

TRUST

kepercayaan itu diberikan atau diusahakan???
kepercayaan itu ditemukan atau dicari???
kepercayaan itu ...

Learning From My Friend

I have a friend
What i admire from my friend is the way my friend thinks
It's so natural, smooth, innocence
How beautiful it is
I really wanna learn that, for person who has many thoughts flying over inside my brain that hardens me to concentrate
And i just got an "I don;y know" answer...

Accelerated Learning

US Ambassador in Assalaam

this morning i'm glad to woelcome mrs. steacy, staff of US Ambassador for Islamic political division.
we had a good discussion(although it's being boring when unknown people asked)
not really talking about islam and politics
but she talked about US presidential election (and she is a emocrat:vote for OBAMA!!!)
then we walked aroung my school, accompanied by Zahro and Devi, 2 smart students (Zahro is english master and devi is going to US next 2 month)
however, the courtesy meeting made me absent for class
but it's okay

smg

today i had AFS selection
i went to semarang with adi putri's parent(my student)
and i made her parents got ticket T_T (i'm so sorryyyyyyy)
over all, the selection was perfect
the students i interviewed was excellent

(^_^)

HAPPY B'DAY TO ME
HAPPY B'DAY TO ME
HAPPY B'DAY HAPPY B'DAY
HAPPY B'DAY TO MEEEEEEE.........
(^_^)

wow, i'm in 2 heads now. how old...
then when i'll marry ya?hehehe

holiday

sunday is holiday of course
monday is holiday
so today i have free classes
horeeeeeeeeeeeee...

amazing

AMAZING
dunno...why i'm writing it down
...
juz wanna write it
cuz it worth so much
many things happen
amaze me...
that's why it's AMAZING

deep thinking

u know....
i'm a deep thinker
i always think about everything
and forget it all hahaha
actually it doesn't dissapeear like that
just move to other parts of my brain
sometimes easily to find
and sometimes harder than study hehehe
i think of people,think, etc
but my rain doesn't get full
Subhanallah
all praise to Allah!!!!



however,
i think i think too deep lately
so deep
so tough
so hard
so stimulates my nerve


Shabr
Shabr
Shabr


i wish i could get hidayah
i wish Allah would show me the right path
of course He would
but... doesn't Allah ask me to find it too
so...

think
THINK
THINK
THINK

tamu

ahad kemaren...
mba ilik maen ke rmahq lhooo
sama mba nisa n mba manda
jadi rame deh

CAPEK

fiuhhhh
tenaga betul2 terkuras
habisssss
untung banyak penyemangat
walau akhir2 ini ntah kenapa penyemangatq agak kendor jg
ga tau...

nasyid

hari ini da lomba nasyid
alhamdulillah assalaam juara 1
da bintang tamu FATIH
q dapet CD gratis+ttd+foto bareng
duuhhh...jadi teringat masa jaya dulu
pengen bikin tim nasyid lagi neee
sapa ya yg mau?

horeee

horeeee
akhirnya setelah melewati sabtu-minggu-senin yang melelahkan
aq pulang jugaaa.....
daannn...di pondok sudah disambut dengan undangan rapat koordinasi hiks hiks hiks T_T
anyway, jogja wasn'tthat bad
dapet ilmu banyak, pren banyak, terutama kenalan baru yg sangat penting...koordinator riset wilayah 3 ISMKI
hasil lobi ke LG juga udah kelar
tinggal harap2 cemas
yaudah
pulang
bobo...

lelah dan amanah

lelah dan amanah
mana yang harus didahulukan yaaa???

akreditasi

AKREDITASI euy...
ntar tanggal 13-15 FK UMS (place i study) mw divisitasi
sibuk
sibuk
sibuk
semakin sibuk
semakin ketauan kalo lom siap!!!


doakan ajaa...

what's inside brain?

Question!!!
PIKIRAN tu adanya di OTAK
kalo PERASAAN tu adanya dimana ya???

sahabat

sahabat...
kata yang aneh ya
english sahabat=friend=teman
so harusnya sahabat = teman dunx ya hehehe
...
...
...
bingung
kenapa harus dibeda2in
for me semua org sahabatq kok
(^_^)

senaaanngg...

aaahhh...
senaaaaanngg...
sedikit demi sedikit kita mulai dekat
memang tidak sempurna
tapi progress selalu ada



I Met You as a STRANGER
I Live You as a FRIEND

KEMBAR (KEMah akBAR)

fiuhhh...
kemaren habis dampingin anak2 kemah
bener2 susah ngurusin 400 anak kelas 1-2 MTs.
capeeeekk...untung have fun terus
habis anak2 tu...nyebelin,tapi juga lucuin hehehe
da anak yg maen ke sungai, jadi ngrasa takut juga kalo tu anak hanyut.langsung panggil plus jeweerrrr dah hehehe
dah gitu pas jauhnya sekitar satu kilo, HTq bunyi
"Halo, k'Fakih.masuk...anda ada di mana???...ni ada anak butuh P3K sekarang!!!"
waduhh...
gimana ga panik...yawda langsung aja lari ke atas.
nah pas lari tuh saraf sensorik di kulit punggung tanganq merasakan suatu gerakan halus ...
pas tak lihat... HWAAAAA...LINTAAAAHHH.....!!!!!
langsung tak kebat kebut kebit gitu masih ga mau lepas...
setelah perjuangan spontan 3 detik.akhirnya lepas juga tu lintah
hiiii...ngeri bin jijik hehehe
dah gitu pas nyampe pos...eh tim kesehatan yg satunya dah dateng...uuuhhh gmn ga sebel!!!
yawda deh, pukul 5 sore q meninggalkan buper Setiawan Jodi Land Tawangmangu pake motor.
dah kesesat...
hampir jatuh ke selokan...
lampu motor mati...
bensin abis...
gelap...tengah utan lagi...
untunglah Allah masih bersamaq
alhamdulilah
akhirnya pulang kesolo dengan merayap, cuz ga berani ngebut.
pulang...ada sponsorship buat dinner. syukrooon yaaaaa...
sampe pondok, mak bleg...tiduuuurrrrr
(-_-)zzZZZ

liboerand...!!!

LIEBOOOOEEERR...!!!
akhirnya q bisa lepas daribuku2kuliah
which means...time for ngeneeeett...!!! hehehe
so sori nih lama ga kontak
4 my prens all
especially 4 my dad n mom who're gonnamove to California (miss u...)
John ... are you sure gonna go to PD???g'luck bro
Parker... CONGRATULATION!!! get your MASTER DEGREE
Milo... Good Luck at MARINE (I just watched Annapolis...hope you're fine...sigh)
and 4 all my US friends (please don;t forget this site...i'm still alive hahaa)